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It started with a boy I met at summer camp and ended with the man for whom I left my first husband. In between, I careened from one intimate entanglement to the next — dozens of them — without so much as a day off between romances. You might have called me a serial monogamist, except that I was never exactly monogamous. Relationships overlapped, and those overlaps were always marked by exhausting theatricality: Erie PA professional dating arguments, shaming confrontations, broken hearts.

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If he needed to sneak out of his house after midnight in order to call, better still. That was power, but it was also affirmation.

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This guy is the one. Back then, if you asked me what I was up to, I might have claimed that I was a helpless romantic — and how can you judge that?

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I came home in tears, only to find a string of distressing phone messages from my divorce lawyer: Nothing but ruin on that front too.

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Then I did an unusual thing. I did not grab the telephone and call yet another man.

For the first time, I forced myself to admit that I had a problem — indeed, that I was a problem. I hated that it took me almost 20 years to realize this.

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My God, how I wanted to unwrap this man like a Christmas present! Uncertain, I tried something radically new.

We sat down on a park bench, and I got very quiet, picturing all the imaginable outcomes of this decision. The man took a magazine from his backpack and started reading, just to pass the time. This helped, actually. It proved the absence of intoxicating desperation.

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This was not seduction; this was merely two sober adults, deciding whether they should get more involved with each other. We spent a few more pleasant hours together, then said our goodbyes. I walked away alone but calm. Confessions of a Seduction Addict.